"How are we doing?" is a question couples only ask once it's already bad.
Once a week, you and your partner each get the same private question: "How connected did you feel this week? Reply 1 to 10." Then we compare and hand you both something to talk about.
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Plans from $2/mo. Cancel by text. No app, ever.
The text you'll actually get
No mood board, no mockup. This is the real message CoupleCheckIn sends, and how you answer it.
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What happens when you ignore us
Every other app you ignore. This one notices.
If you go quiet
If both partners score 4 or below for 2 consecutive weeks, sends couples resource suggestion
- How often
- 1x weekly (Sunday evening)
- Weekly report
- Once a week we send the receipts: what you did, what you skipped, and the streak you are defending.
The whole setup, by text
No form, no app store, no password. You answer a couple of questions and you're live.
Text 1
Text 2
Text 3
Takes about 11 seconds. We timed it.
What it costs
No per-skill surprises. CoupleCheckIn is one skill, billed with everything else you turn on.
$2/mo
One skill. This one, if it's the one.
$7/mo
Five skills. CoupleCheckIn counts as one of them.
Questions you're already asking
How does the two-way part work?
You add your partner's number in setup. Each Sunday you both privately get the same question and answer honestly without seeing each other's number first. Then we share both scores and a conversation starter built from them.
What if our scores come back low?
One rough week is just data. But if you both score 4 or below two weeks running, we send a couples-resource suggestion. It doesn't diagnose your relationship; it notices a pattern worth talking about.
Won't comparing scores start fights?
It's a starting point, not a verdict. A 6 sitting next to an 8 is a conversation, not an accusation. Honest numbers on a quiet Sunday beat guessing what your partner is thinking.
How do I cancel?
Text CANCEL COUPLE and we stop. No phone call, no retention rep, no guilt trip.
Does it work on my phone?
It's SMS. If your phone can send a text, it works. No app to download, no smartphone required.
If this isn't your problem
Same category, different nag. One of these might be the one you actually need.
You read the whole page.
Just start.
CoupleCheckIn kicks in the second you text in. The hard part was scrolling this far.
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