Nobody drifts on purpose. You both just got busy and stopped.
Give us 5 to 20 names. One text a day points at whoever you've gone quiet on the longest: "It's been 18 days since you reached out to Sarah. Reply DONE when you do."
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Plans from $2/mo. Cancel by text. No app, ever.
The text you'll actually get
No mood board, no mockup. This is the real message FriendPoke sends, and how you answer it.
BotherMe
SMS · Active now
What happens when you ignore us
Every other app you ignore. This one notices.
No escalation
Nothing dramatic. Nobody gets a text, no alarm goes off. It is just you, the streak you are about to break, and us asking again tomorrow.
- How often
- 1x daily (rotates through contact list)
- Weekly report
- Once a week we send the receipts: what you did, what you skipped, and the streak you are defending.
The whole setup, by text
No form, no app store, no password. You answer a couple of questions and you're live.
Text 1
Text 2
Text 3
Takes about 11 seconds. We timed it.
What it costs
No per-skill surprises. FriendPoke is one skill, billed with everything else you turn on.
$2/mo
One skill. This one, if it's the one.
$7/mo
Five skills. FriendPoke counts as one of them.
Questions you're already asking
How does it pick who to nudge me about?
You give it 5 to 20 first names and a comfortable gap (default is 14 days). It rotates through the list and surfaces whoever you've gone the longest without contacting. Reply DONE when you reach out and that person's clock resets.
Does it text my friends directly?
Never. Every text comes to you and only you. What you send them, and how, stays entirely yours. We just point at the name and get out of the way.
What if I'm not ready to reach out to someone?
Reply SKIP and it moves on without resetting that person's clock, so they cycle back later. No guilt, no pile-up of names you're dreading.
How do I cancel?
Text CANCEL FRIENDS and we stop. No phone call, no retention rep, no guilt trip.
Does it work on my phone?
It's SMS. If your phone can send a text, it works. No app to download, no smartphone required.
If this isn't your problem
Same category, different nag. One of these might be the one you actually need.
You read the whole page.
Just start.
FriendPoke kicks in the second you text in. The hard part was scrolling this far.
or text FRIENDS to (855) 812-6669
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